The trend tends to travel alone, no question about it. There are more and more articles from women travelling alone reporting about their experiences. But the stories often give me a diffuse feeling of let’s call it tension. Because actually all reports always begin with fear. Fear of what others might think, fear of offending people in foreign countries and cultures, fear of loneliness, fear of travelling alone as a woman… And then follows one – for me rather matt: but when you have overcome all this, you will see how well you like it and how strong you become.
Yes, of course, you emerge stronger from every crisis. But travelling alone isn’t always a free decision, often it’s more a result of necessity. You can’t find someone who is on holiday at the same time, who has the as much or as little money, who wants to see the same country… At some point, you inevitably think: and if I were to go alone? Or maybe a bit more defiant: then I would go alone!
That’s right! Go alone, before you don’t go at all! And don’t let any ” travelling–alone-expert” drive you crazy. You don’t have to go straight to an Islamic country or the Australian outback on your first journey! Slow down, try it out, see if you like it. And if you only dare 3 days in the vicinity, then do so! You are exploring your limits and you should definitely do this at your own pace and under your own conditions.
But if you are already thinking about going abroad in Europe, then I want to make the Côte d’Azur tasty for you with this article.
8 facts why the Côte d’Azur is great for solo travellers
1) The culture is similar
France is a Christian industrial country. Women have equal rights, and in some cases, it is even easier for French women. French mothers, for example, find it easier to reconcile work and child.
This means for tourists that there are no noticeable differences. The same rules apply: Bikini on the beach is okay, topless is sometimes tolerated, nudism only on designated zones. You go to the restaurant properly dressed and not in beach clothes, men also have to cover their upper body – should be self-evident. Also in churches: covering shoulders and knees – in France as in Germany the same question of respect.
2) Going out to eat
Going alone to a restaurant or bistro is neither shameful nor unusual in France. It’s all about the love of food and the French admire people who can enjoy a good meal. It doesn’t matter whether they are alone or not. However, it can happen that in the high season and in the popular tourist destinations you are given a side table in some corner. They will only earn half at your table. Understandable, but also avoidable, by visiting small local restaurants and talking to the staff instead of disappearing behind a book or smartphone.
And if that seems too exhausting at first, then you can stock up on the markets with the tastiest food you can imagine!
3) getting in touch
The Southern French are sociable and helpful people. In the high season, the local people working in the service sector have an incredible level of stress. I think there are three main reasons for this: on the one hand work in the heat is super exhausting, on the other hand tourists are exhausting because of the heat and on the third hand the remaining 9 months are much quieter, the difference is too big.
Nevertheless, (most) French like to chat. I like to ask sellers and waiters for recommendations. Recommendations for restaurants with regional cuisine, recommendations for excursions, bathing places, specials where to go with the dog – most people like to talk about their region and think of something nice for us strangers. In Nice, we got a sensational tip from a salesman in a bicycle shop where to eat socca. We wouldn’t have tried both the restaurant and Socca on our own.
With Christoph, the man from the market, our dog always gets an apple. Meanwhile, even cut into small pieces – our sonny can’t handle a whole apple…
4) public transportation
If you want to get around a bit and discover more of the area, there are many ways to do so in southern France. You can take the train or the bus, for example. Here you can plan your trip with different means of transport. In summer there are also small ferries, e.g. from Cannes to Theoule or Saint Maxime to Saint Tropez. And also in other places. They were called ‘Navette’.
5) overnight stay
On the Côte d’Azur, you have all the freedoms you would like to have. You can go to a hotel, to a holiday flat, to an apartment hotel, to a holiday resort, to hostels (some of which have pure women’s dormitories e.g. in Nice here (*) and here (*) or in Antibes (*), but also pure men’s dormitories (*) and total luxury rooms (*) ), camp – everything you want. Whereby I would not recommend camping because of the temperatures…
There are no restrictions here either because you travel alone as a woman (or man). There are a few things to keep in mind, like opening hours or dress code (if you want to go to the opera, for example), but nobody puts obstacles in your way because you are travelling alone.
It is generally assumed that the French only speak French and that they switch off when one tries to speak English. This is not the case on the French Riviera! Here everybody, from the baker’s wife to the bus driver, speaks at least a few words English. And if you ever find someone in a mountain village who only speaks French, you have a funny anecdote to tell when you get back. Because often it doesn’t stop the other person from talking when you point out that you don’t understand anything. He only speaks louder!
Yes, that is an important point and we want to face up to the facts: there is a risk. But, you know, it’s pretty easy to counter it: Stay overnight in hostels! Sign up for an activity, e.g. via Airbnb! Take a perfume course in Grasse! Join free walking tours like in Antibes, Cannes or Nice! Go to an Irish Pub! Take a ride with locals! Or just sit next to someone on the bench and start a conversation. It’s up to you and how open-minded and adventurous you are.
The Côte d’Azur is a great destination to gain your first experience of travelling alone, not only for women but also for men. You are familiar with the culture, you will have no communication problems, because almost everyone here speaks at least a little English, you will not have to change your habits any more than on other trips, you do not need a new wardrobe or special behaviours and if the worst comes to the worst, you will get home quickly without much trouble. Oh, and did I mention how incredibly beautiful it is here?